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Online Dating question?

Its been a week since i signed up to a popular online dating site and so far I have only had one message from another user on there (im male) Why is my profile getting so little response, is this normal, i have not yet sent any emails to people! I have a picture and an honest profile, im an attractive guy (so i have been told) Whats going wrong,or is this just normal for anyone?

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  1. Just take your time, the right one will hopefully pop up. Online dating though popular, has a lot of issues with it, you'de be better off going in person to places to meet people.
  2. Would you like help with it? I've got some experience in the area and would more than happy to take a look. You're new here, so IF you would like help, click on my avatar (picture), from there you can email me.
  3. you need to send a few emails, you need to give it time.
  4. Its all in the wording of your profile. For example if a girl types that she is a very sensitive type, this is a big mistake. Why because guys will say to themselves," bugger that one she's too sensitive and I will have heaps of hassles". See what I am getting at?, so go back over the wording of your profile.
  5. Dont sit back and wait for women to contact you. Most of the time women are inundated with messages from men, and therefore dont get time to 'browse' profiles. They are too busy replying to messages. What are you waiting for??? Send some messages!
  6. You have to be proactive especially with Asain women. Don't wait to get respond, you have to sent out email and show your interseting. I'm a Thai, we were tought that only bad girls show off to get attraction. If you are on dating Thai sites you have to start first to get respond.
  7. In the online world of dating there seems to be so many more men than women. Make your profile honest, show a sense of humour, don't sound too desperate or needy. Also, why haven't you sent any emails out? Look through the profiles and send chatty interesting emails. Check your spelling and grammar, it's important to a lot of women. Make sure you read the profile and don't send a generic out to all. Good luck, I've met some fantastic people via the internet.
  8. first of all you need a good pic. Nice and clear that shows your body to make sure your not fat. People are shallow. they want to make sure you look good.
  9. Sometimes it just takes some time, other times it just depends on the site - it could be too because you're a guy many girls might be waiting for you to make the first move! Here are some resources that might help you from my website: Some tips for writing an online profile: http://www.itmightbelove.com/2008/03/21/writing-magnetic-profiles-to-attract-your-next-date/ Here are some online dating sites I reviewed and put together for easy reference. I have two on here that are 100% free, so maybe it wouldn't hurt to try more than one site at a time? http://www.itmightbelove.com/resources/online-dating-resources/ Good luck! Hope that helps!
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